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mga kaibigan how much do you talk about?

Do you talk about everything and anything with your best friend or do you have subjects you stay clear of for reasons such as embarrasement or sensitivity or some other reason. I ask because my friend has suddenly decided there are certain things she does not want me talking about but when I ask for certain subjects to be off limits she takes offence. I don't want to fall out with her as she is probably moving to Spain but the rate its going I think it may happen.
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just make sure u know eachothers boundaries. tell if if theres something she doesnt want u talking about to just tell u nicely. You guys are best mga kaibigan be open communicate tell her u feel alittle bad or whatever she will listen.
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BabyBlud said:
It depends on the idividual mga kaibigan for me. There are two mga kaibigan i have told everything and anything, knowing they will not judge me or dispise me and will be able to offer hope and support when i feel low when the memories hit me. Other friends, certain things for me are off limits and i respect their decision if they do not feel like telling me anything.
However - if your friend believes she should know everything about you, but does not respect you enough to tell you everything about her, then i can't see the relationship going anywhere.
You should tell your friend that you respect her decision not to tell you things, but she in turn should respect the same of you. If you do not want to tell her things, she shouldn't push at you or become huffy about it, as that is not what a friend is supposed to be.
It could be she justs wants to help, but all the same, she can easily sympathise and encourage and hold you up sa pamamagitan ng the sidelines not knowing anything, then knowing every little detail.
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