My mga kaibigan are interfering....

It can be quite annoying to have others interfere.

There are times where you must be assertive and/or stubborn. You need to tell your mga kaibigan (and be persistent about it) that you can't always be with them when something happens. Okay, being asked out sa pamamagitan ng someone is a big surprise and everyone wants to celebrate, but do it all on your own times. It's not very necessary when you're with that person; especially when you wish to be alone with them.

If they pull that stunt off again ("Okay, I'll leave you alo-- OH uy DO THIS."), be assertive and say, "I believe you sinabi that you would let me do things on my own. I would appreciate it if you could leave me alone in these situations, thank you." It might sound mean to some, but it's not being aggressive. Being aggressive would be saying something like, "You back off! Don't you know how to leave me alone?!" That sounds much worse, doesn't it? Better off to say the first thing than to make bad relations with your friends, trust me.

Explain to that guy-friend of yours that you're sorry about it, and that it -- has been -- beyond your control. Hopefully he'll be able to understand the former dilemma that you had, and now things should be different. Your mga kaibigan should learn something too; they aren't the ones who are in control of someone else's life or the decisions that someone else makes. It takes a while to mature, but no one sinabi that some teachings of maturity can't be learned fast. That's why you live and learn, and fix the mistakes that you've made before.

Hopefully this helps you out. Good luck.