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I'm 16, have 6 madami months to go in school, but I feel like I won't be able to mentally/emotionally last that long because...? (Read description)

I go to a small school, and there are 3 particular people around my taon group who seem to hate me. They get a kick out of insulting me WHENEVER I come into contact with them. And for no reason at all. It's making my last taon at school very repetative and unpleasant.

There's nothing wrong with me apart from my shyness and lower social confidence. I know that. I'm not ugly or overweight, I'm not completely stupid (maybe at maths but I'm OK at other things), I try to be tolerent and nice to most people I meet. Not to sound vain, but there isn't really a reason for me to deserve half the shit I get from those dicks.

The only thing is my sensitivity. They've picked up on things I've muttered about myself within the past taon when I've had 'less confident' days and sic it on me. I'm insecure about certain things and they draw attention to it to get a reaction. It makes me feel like shit, even if what they consider "banter" means nothing. The two boys in my class are the main ones doing this. They're the class-clowns and their version of "having a sense of humor" is pagganap like complete idiots. I thought they were funny at first, but I now I just fucking hate them. They've even turned my childhood friend on me; he jeers on the insults now.

There's also this tomboy-ish girl who will occasionally drop in her penny-worth, too. She's strange. Like, alone she seems fine, but she will act like a asong babae in front of madami than two people other than me. Especially the two boys I'm talking about. Really nasty, crude comments as well. I have a feeling it's because she's jealous of me... I don't know.

I'm trying my best to have come-backs, but I'm crap at coming up with them at the right times. I just cuss them out all the time now. I'm not severely bullied or anything, but it is really pissing me off.

I've visited the college I'm going to and it seems great. So... will waiting it out, getting my GCSEs (exams) done and finishing the whole taon be worth it?
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jameswilson said:
You seem smart and likable! These guys are just jerks with nothing better to do. You can make it 6 months - I promise. Don't bother with come backs - just stay strong and turn the other cheek. They may get tired of picking on you, but they may not. Either way just stay strong.
You're going to get to college and you're going to laugh when you think back to how stupid these people are now - you're going to make new mga kaibigan and you'll probably be better off in the long run than any of the bullies at your school.
It might help to talk to a councilor at your school - it really helps to vent and that's what councilors are there for. Either that or talk to your parents or a friend or adult from somewhere that isn't school.
If it isn't severe bullying and you're just getting fed up you might want to mention that you don't want to make a big thing out of it (a councilor might want to bring in these students and it might make a bigger deal out of it then you would like). Just tell them you need to talk and that you just need a little help making it until the point where you never have to deal with them again.

You can do it!
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herpinaderpson said:
I think they're picking up on you because of your low self confidence. In 5th grade, there was a whore(I actually mean that word) whose paborito daily activity was picking up on me, teasing me in front of my mga kaibigan and spreading false rumor about me around the school. The main reason she treated me like that was my extremely low self confidence. Now I'm in 7th grade, and nobody ever dares to mess with me. I think it's because I'm madami confident. Besides that, I also like giving the idea that I'm an uneasy girl - and that makes people madami interested in me.
I'm not sure if this is going to help, but this is my experience. I wish you a better school taon ^_^
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Rainshadow999 said:
Finally! Someone who understands the difference between getting irritated and bullied! Half of my class hates me (probably more) and I have 3 madami years at high-school. Try and ignore them, or actually, stand up for yourself, you actually feel like you've done something then.

Another taon is like a fresh start to a new life, it will be worth it. :)
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