payo

sagutin ng tanong na ito

payo Tanong

?~?

so before i say anything, im open minded and all that, i don't care what race, sex, religion or sexual orientation you are as long as your entertaining your a friend to me.

so, yesterday at the bus stop me and my friend (lets say his name is j) were just chatting about the normal stuff, when out of no where he shouts a LOT of curses (he is British so idk half of what he was saying) and looked at me and like whispered in my ear that he was actually gay and he wanted to petsa me. i told him i was flattered but i don't think it would work out, he is Still trying to text me, call me and even stood at my doorstep this morning, i do not know what else to say to him to make him understand. help?
 Joymofo posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
next question »

payo Sagot

DramaQueen1020 said:
pagpaparangal for being nice about it and not making fun of him. I know loads of people might do that.

Now to the point. Are you gay as well? If you're just straight, tell him. Just stand in front of him, look him in the eye and say you're sorry, but you just don't roll that way. If you're not straight, but just don't want to petsa him, tell him that you just don't think it'll work out or that you're not looking for a boyfriend. Be honest to him. He may just accept it and carry on. But if he gets angry and threatens you, tell an adult.

If he keeps going on after a couple days, texting you and going to your doorstep, tell him to leave you alone, that you feel harassed. Hopefully it'll work out. Good luck!
 select as best answer
posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas 
StarWarrior said:
Just explain that you're not attracted to him, and don't sugar-coat it, just be honest.
 select as best answer
posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas 
next question »
Cookies help us bring you Fanpop. By using Fanpop, you agree to our use of cookies. Learn More Got It!