sagutin ng tanong na ito

kristyanismo Tanong

Should I wait for the guy I believe God put on this Earth for me?

His name is Chris <3 we are really great friends. I really like everything about him! I have never felt this way about another guy! I might even pag-ibig him... and I'm not one to abuse the word. And he sinabi that he really likes me too. But he believes there is only one special person out there for him that God sent him, he wants to wait. Don't get me wrong I believe the same... but I believe God sent him to me, that he is my only... <3 and I'm willing to wait for him, do you think this is the right thing to do?

 Loveaddict1234 posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
next question »

kristyanismo Sagot

Cinders said:
If you mean wait to have sex, I would definitely stick to your beliefs. Even if he is your soulmate, I think it would be important to both of you if you made a promise to wait until after you're married. After all, it's hard to know, at such a tender age, if what you're feeling is lasting. I'm not trying to tanong it - I'm sure you very powerfully feel pag-ibig for this boy. But also take into account that you are young, and you should wait until you know for sure. First loves, especially teenage love, can feel overwhelming and intense, but sometimes they turn out to be false or complicated. Like I said, I don't mean to belittle your feelings, I'm just saying wait and see. Things may seem perfect now, but the only way to know for sure is time, and if you really want to wait for your soulmate, then you should wait now.

sa pamamagitan ng all means, petsa him. Spend time with him. halik him. But it seems to me that waiting for that one person is important to the both of you, and you should wait at the very least until you are absolutely beyond a doubt positive that it's what you want to do. Depending on what you believe, this could mean waiting until after you are married. I fully support that, if it's what you want to do.

Remember - an idea may seem good in the moment, but it's how you'll feel in five years, looking back, that matters. If you make a serious commitment, you can be sure that in five years, it will probably be a great memory and one you cherish. But don't go all in too fast. You don't know what's to come. Perhaps God has different plans.
select as best answer
posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas 
*
Oh nono I agree I am young I'm not looking for sex sa pamamagitan ng any means! I definetly want to wait until I'm married for that! But this guy... Hes different, he just simply wants to be loved and thats what I want and I believe if I petsa him now I will be with him forever! and im not just saying that trust me
Loveaddict1234 posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
*
OK, then petsa him! See where it goes! There's no harm in that.
Cinders posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
*
awww! Thats so sweet! And dont worry i know where my boundries are
Loveaddict1234 posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
K5-HOWL said:
Yes
select as best answer
posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas 
sesshyswind said:
Are you really shy or just inconfident, just go for it, if your really are good mga kaibigan then that should last even if your pag-ibig fair does not, and if he is the right one for you then you'll know, perhaps eventually. Because no matter what you're relationship will last, so long as that is God's plan for both you and him. Give it a chance, and see how it goes, good things come to those who wait, but it can also come sa pamamagitan ng chance and or sa pamamagitan ng the risk, so you can never really know what to expect or to fear more, but just to accept the challenge for the pssibilty that somethig good can come out of trying hard for that sake of life and for your love. Anything is worth it, rather it strives or fails, at least you'll know when to ilipat on, and is for the best.
select as best answer
posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas 
*
Wow thanks that really helped!
Loveaddict1234 posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
Blue_Roses4U2 said:
I don't know who you are or what you or your friend Chris is like, but all I can say is do what you feel is best for your heart. Just listen and you'll hear it. Don't say no to chance, because that could be God's will in progress, you'll never know unless you try:)
select as best answer
posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas 
next question »