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Dearheart said:
Can of worms. You have opened it. xD First, let's be clear about something...did you come to our spot looking for a fight, or do you genuinely want to hear what we have to say? Being "open-minded" goes both ways, you know. Are you willing to try to see things from our point of view? If so, then here's how I think most of us see it. We believe in God - Father, Son and Holy Spirit - and we believe that the Bible was inspired and dictated directly sa pamamagitan ng Him. And the Bible states pretty clearly that guy with guys and girls with girls is wrong, both in the Old Testament and the New Testament. God designed romantic pag-ibig and marriage to be between a man and a woman only. Man and woman complete each other, temper each other and balance each other out...physically, emotionally and spiritually. Look at it this way: can you forge a sword using two tongs or two hammers? No, you need one of each - one to lift and support the metal, and one to shape it into something beautiful and strong. Likewise, a godly marriage needs a man and a woman. They are both equally special and important, but in different ways. They fill each other's strengths and weaknesses and they both have natural, different roles to fill; roles assigned to them sa pamamagitan ng the Ultimate Matchmaker to help forge a strong, healthy, godly relationship. Having two men or two women together upsets the balance and distorts God's disensyo for marriage. Having sinabi all that...does this give us the go-ahead to hate or disrespect gays, or mean that God hates gay people? Absolutely not...'cause there's this little thing called "love the sinner, hate the sin". While standing firm in the truth is extremely important, it's equally important to reach out in pag-ibig to people and ipakita them the grace that our Savior showed us. Unfortunately, many Christians ugoy to one of two extremes: 1) they hold on to the truth of God's Word so hard that they get obsessed with "being right" and forget to be loving. 2) They become so preoccupied with being loving that they let go of the truth completely just to make others feel better and they get all wishy-washy. Neither of those extremes are good ones. Finding the balance is the key, and a lot of Christians struggle with it; myself included. I am NOT homophobic, and I hate it when people slap that label on me just because I disagree with homosexuality. I do not hate or fear gay people. I don't look down on them or resent them in any way. (Some of my mom's mga kaibigan are gay, and she's a pastor's wife!) If one of my mga kaibigan admitted they were addicted to drugs, I'd still pag-ibig them and care about them, but I'd do what I could to help them. I wouldn't drag them kicking and screaming to an NA meeting or anything, because you can't force someone to quit; but I'd still pray for them, talk to them about my concerns and let them know that they can get help if they want to.
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