I’ve received a lot of messages about troubles with love, the gender one identifies as…
Things such as, “I hate myself as a girl” and “is it wrong to fall in pag-ibig with someone of the same gender” …
I have a feeling that I’ve talked about this before, but first of all, I want to say that I don’t have that sort of prejudice at all. I guess you could say that I feel the same way you do. There’s nothing wrong with falling in pag-ibig with someone.
It’s sad that there are people who look upon this issue with a prejudiced view or a hateful view, just as there’s also a lot of people who judge others based on their appearance, but I think that there’s nothing that can be done about it.
They say “I understand” with their mouths, but they don’t really mean it. So, you end up feeling isolated sa pamamagitan ng different things around you.
Then, there’s the people who want to become men, but their parents don’t understand and refuse to accept it.
“You were born as a woman.” is a really irrational thing to say, isn’t it.
It’s depressing that they don’t understand your nature, your puso and body…
It’s not your fault.
There’s no reason to blame yourself. It’s no one else’s fault, either.
Despite that, I think that it’s especially difficult to have this sort of conflict with your parents…
I believe that someday, they’ll surely accept you for who you are, so don’t change.
You should pay no attention to those around you and take pride in who you are. But if you let yourself be affected sa pamamagitan ng what they say, then that pain is already waiting within the depths of your heart. Still, there’s no need whatsoever to be humble.
Even if you get all of those feelings out of you that are so painful it’s hard to breathe, it won’t go well.
The pain of rejection, the fact that you can’t come to pag-ibig yourself for who you are, and the feeling of hurting yourself… I understand completely.
Nevertheless, there’s no need for you to hurt yourself.
Because we’re all human, we have good points and bad points, so it’s only natural, but you can’t change for anyone because you only have this one existence.
Today, there was an incident at an unexpected place where I felt the kindness of people.
Although I have nothing but a cold image of strangers, feeling that kindness at an unexpected time warmed my heart.
It’ll be okay… we can get through this together.
Things such as, “I hate myself as a girl” and “is it wrong to fall in pag-ibig with someone of the same gender” …
I have a feeling that I’ve talked about this before, but first of all, I want to say that I don’t have that sort of prejudice at all. I guess you could say that I feel the same way you do. There’s nothing wrong with falling in pag-ibig with someone.
It’s sad that there are people who look upon this issue with a prejudiced view or a hateful view, just as there’s also a lot of people who judge others based on their appearance, but I think that there’s nothing that can be done about it.
They say “I understand” with their mouths, but they don’t really mean it. So, you end up feeling isolated sa pamamagitan ng different things around you.
Then, there’s the people who want to become men, but their parents don’t understand and refuse to accept it.
“You were born as a woman.” is a really irrational thing to say, isn’t it.
It’s depressing that they don’t understand your nature, your puso and body…
It’s not your fault.
There’s no reason to blame yourself. It’s no one else’s fault, either.
Despite that, I think that it’s especially difficult to have this sort of conflict with your parents…
I believe that someday, they’ll surely accept you for who you are, so don’t change.
You should pay no attention to those around you and take pride in who you are. But if you let yourself be affected sa pamamagitan ng what they say, then that pain is already waiting within the depths of your heart. Still, there’s no need whatsoever to be humble.
Even if you get all of those feelings out of you that are so painful it’s hard to breathe, it won’t go well.
The pain of rejection, the fact that you can’t come to pag-ibig yourself for who you are, and the feeling of hurting yourself… I understand completely.
Nevertheless, there’s no need for you to hurt yourself.
Because we’re all human, we have good points and bad points, so it’s only natural, but you can’t change for anyone because you only have this one existence.
Today, there was an incident at an unexpected place where I felt the kindness of people.
Although I have nothing but a cold image of strangers, feeling that kindness at an unexpected time warmed my heart.
It’ll be okay… we can get through this together.
