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Glee Do you think that if Quinn keeps the baby, it will "ruin her life"?

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friendsfan101 picked No...:
This is just based on the last pick I made. People who said that they felt unsure or that they thought she would give up the baby said that if she kept the baby, her "life would be ruined", as would Puck's and the baby's.

I honestly don't see it. I mean, obviously, it would be hard for Quinn, but there are a lot of teenage parents who have succeeded & are happy that they had kids then, and it didn't ruin their lives. (I'm not supporting or encouraging teen pregnancy but it's just that I don't think that all teen parents ruined their lives). I think that Quick would be great parents and of course, they would have a hard time, but...I don't think it would ruin their lives.
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xoKel_Belxo picked No...:
i think not keeping it will ruin her life..everyday she'll be missing her..i mean its apart of her&puck...she might even become depressed..so...
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friendsfan101 picked No...:
Well said! ^

I don't know why, but I keep thinking of Shelby & Rachel. Shelby gave her up, and then she always regretted it, and missed a huge part of Rachel's life, and now that they're together-they're making progress, but it's so awkward with her. I think that if Quinn gave the baby up, like xoKel_Belxo said, she'll be missing the baby, always wondering, "what would've happened had I kept her?", and she may not have the chance that Shelby had to see her daughter.
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VictoriNoRisuu picked Yes.:
She'll learn to be happy eventually, for sure.

But.. Is it the most important thing, to "learn to be happy"...? Quinn has no many, no support (Puck can't really count - he changes he mind so easly...And even if he'll raise a child as a perfect father, he won't commit to Quinn as his wife & only woman in his life. So they won't make a family), no plans for the future.

You guys are right that there are teenage perents who succesed. But did anyone of them raised his/her child totally on their onwn? Whithout parental support...? The key to succes in being a parent as a teenager is having extremaly big support forom the baby's grandparents. There's no other way. Quinn, unfortunately diesn't have it.

She has still so much life to live! School to graduate, perhaps college or finding work... And what will happen one day when she meets a man she'll really love, her "Other half"? She be still stuck with Puck...? Or will she raise a child with two dads?

Let's also think about Beth - she'll be way happier being raised in a loving family, by a merried couple that is ready to give her everything (phisically & emotionally) she needs in her life.

Quinn is not ready to be a mother. She has nothing & will have nothing if she keeps her daughter. Consequently, Beth won't get everything she deserves to get.

To sum up - of course, Quinn will live somehow if she decides to keep Beth. But she'll be happier if she gets the chance to "raise herself" first. What's more important, Beth will be happier if she'll be given up. That's the best gift Quinn cen give her for life.
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friendsfan101 picked No...:
Yes, but what's wrong with being raised by two dads? Rachel was-but then again, she was raised without a mother as well. And we can't really always tell that Beth will go to a loving family-what if they have problems later? And there are teenage parents who succeed-they went to college, raise a family, got a great job-without parental support. I mean, that's not the case with most, but it's still something. We can't really say for sure what choice is better since Quinn can't really do both.
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Bery picked Yes.:
Ruin her life? That's a little too much lol

But I don't think she has the maturity to handle a baby yet, not on her own at the very least. And don't even bother mentioning Puck, he DEFINITELY doesn't have the maturity to handle a baby.

Not saying it's not gonna be tough to give the baby up, it would be ridiculous if it wasn't, but I think it would be for the best, not only for Quinn but also for the baby.

Btw, we don't have any idea as to where Quinn is currently staying, do we? Last we knew she was staying at Finn's, but that blew up long ago and they apparently forgot to update us on her after school whereabouts. That is another important issue on the matter, she definitely cannot keep the baby without some kind of parental support and her parents didn't seem to happy with the situation.

This storyline got very screwed up :/
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friendsfan101 picked No...:
I thought that she was staying with Puck, Bery. =) ^

I mean, in "Laryngytis", she mentioned how Puck's mom wouldn't let her eat bacon and how Puck kept talking about some Star Wars video game to her.
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spikes_girl picked Yes.:
^ In 1x18, Quinn mentioned she was staying with Puck currently. :]
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VictoriNoRisuu picked Yes.:
@friendsfan101 - I believe there's a problem with "two dads". Rachels case is totally differet - she was adopted by two gays, that's not a "family of threesom". The problem is for the child - because it feels unloyal to the biological fathre when it likes his/her new stepdad. There's a problem for biological father, because he usually can't trust the new partner of the child's mother & is jelause of his infulence on the kid. There a problem for the woman, because she wants to have a new realationship with a man he trully loves, but she has a very strong connection with her former partner. There's also a problem for the stepdad, because he wishes for a normal family & that's not so easy to accept his family has an "extra elemet" - the biological father. It's a very complicated situation & you need a lot of strenght & patience to find a balance in it.

Adoption process is very complicated process & you can be sure that new parents are very well selected. You have a chance to meet them, to talke to them, to make the final decision after that. And for sure we can say about these couples that they are mature, responsible & want to be parents very much, what we can't say about Quinn & Puck. When I think about all these wonderful couple that can't have childer on their own, but become parents because of "Quinns" of the world, I'm almost thankful for teenage pregnancy:) I'm thinking about real-life couples, but... lets imagine Monica & Chandler on that place:)

If you know personally a 16 yaers old, who didn't have any money at all, any school graduated 9that's kinda obvious at this age), no real place to live & no partner he could really trust, not the slightest parental support and still was raising a baby, please congratulate him/her from me... That's one in a million.

I know it was very long, but I jest wanted to answer your questions as well as I can. Becasue I trully belive that for Quinn (just as for every mother) giving up the baby will be a terrible expirience, I'm sure that it will be the greatest act of love & unselfishness you can ever imagine.
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friendsfan101 picked No...:
@VictoriNoRisuu-great points and very well said & thanks for answering. Personally, I still don't agree with you, really, but I totally see your points.

LOL Monica & Chandler-who could ever forget their wonderful experience?

I don't personally know any of them, but I believe that one of my friends does. =)

Totally get where you're coming from. I don't agree because personally I believe that Quick will become endgame anyway, and with everything that has happened lately, I can't even imagine them not even considering keeping little Beth. XD

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oPositive picked Yes.:
Her life, and the baby's life. Come on people. She doesn't have the money to take care of this baby. She doesn't have a real home and Puck isn't going to be the worldest best dad any time soon, no matter how badly he wants it. Quinn needs to think about herself AND this baby. If she keeps the baby, it'll have a worse life than if it goes to a family that can support it and actually wants it!
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Bery picked Yes.:
@friendsfan101 Oh thanks I totally missed that :D

Well with more reason, she doesn't have the maturity or means to support a baby and Puck has even less of those.
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norishima picked No...:
This pick made me think of Gilmore Girls, lol ;D
If Quinn does keep it, i can imagine lots and lots of cute scenes with the rest of the team :P

Rachel putting a gold star on its forehead
Mercedes singing "Hush little baby, don't you cry..."
Kurt going over all his moisturizers and creams and yelling at Finn: "If you hadn't found out you weren't the baby-papa, you would be doing this!"
and Finn responding: "I just don't want to see her NAKED!"
Brittany comparing Kurt's skin to the baby's...
Puck googling Beth songs...
If Figgins is against of a baby being on the school grounds, Tina would put on the baby-girl cute little fake teeth and a cape and declare it as her vampire-child. "Deal with it"
Or she would let her play with her bubbles (providing they're made of plastic)

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qb2bu picked No...:
I'm noy supproting teen pregnancy, but my niece got pregnant when she was sixteen and eventually married the father of her baby and had two more kids and they seem pretty happy. Although, she may be the exception rather than the rule.
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xoheartinohioxo picked Yes.:
Ruin her life? That's a little too much lol

But I don't think she has the maturity to handle a baby yet, not on her own at the very least. And don't even bother mentioning Puck, he DEFINITELY doesn't have the maturity to handle a baby.

Not saying it's not gonna be tough to give the baby up, it would be ridiculous if it wasn't, but I think it would be for the best, not only for Quinn but also for the baby.


Agreed.
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livexthexlife92 picked Yes.:
^agreed with Bery. but ya know i seriously do think it would be a terrible decision for her and just be a terrible storyline in general. quinn's in high school, she's a kid and so is puck, theyre deffo not mature enough to be parents. they're not ready and of course giving up the baby will be hard but keeping it would be harder. how would they partake in glee club let alone school if they have a kid to look after. seriously realistically its a terrible idea that would just ruin the dynamic of the characters. plus it would be in the best interest of everyone, quinn puck and the baby if they found a nice home for her. cuz come on quinn and puck arnt ready to be parents, they still have soo much growing up to do and thats what makes them awsome characters, their kids that kid viewers in high school can relate to, giving her a baby would just ruin the shows dynamic. this is glee NOT 16 and pregnant or teen mom. if you wanna see quinn with a baby tune into mtv.
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mangie1995 picked Yes.:
you just can't raise a baby at 16, you'd miss out on the rest of your life, how would you go to college and go out, then again giving it up would probably ruin her life too, so i think being pregnant at 16 already ruined her life, poor Quinn
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xo-naomily-xo picked Yes.:
Ruin her life? It would make it ALOT harder. Neither Quinn or Puck are ready for a baby right now. IMO

A baby would definitley ruin the show. They take up too much attention.
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Nibylandija picked No...:
NOT REALLY?
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Darkrai23 picked Yes.:
It will result in chaos.
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carly-hope picked No...:
but I also dont think it would be good for either her or the baby in the long run
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glee12 picked No...:
i really thought she would give it up she wasnt ready for a child
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