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please help! im panicking

i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time a few days ago, except we didnt have any protection. he used the pull out method and apparently was pretty empty from the night before. i dont keep track of my periods, so assuming i was in ovulation. what do you suppose the chances of me being preg are? (please be nice, dont say thing like " oh well your defiantly preg, you slut" or similar. im really scared)
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nene72 said:
Firstly, how long nakaraan did you have sex and did he manage to pull out before ejaculating? If he did, you most likely have nothing to worry about. I used the withdrawal method with my husband successfully for a couple of years (during my very religious stage). That being said, it is one of the least reliable methods of contraception, not to mention the fact it provides absolutely no protection against sexually transmitted diseases. But then unlike you, I wasn't too adversed about the possibility of falling pregnant. If he did not withdraw in time, or even if you just want to be sure and you had sex no madami than 3 days ago, then you can still go to the doctor and ask for the morning after pill. It's not as effective the longer you wait, but it's still something. Oh, and while you're there, talk about all the different contraceptives available. I like the ring myself.
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nene72 posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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The "pull out method" is a total gamble and IMO not a method at all. You can still get pregnant sa pamamagitan ng pre cum. It is sinabi that it's madami concentrated than actual semen too.
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Nope, not very reliable, but still better than nothing and it did work for me for about 2 years. I don't recomend it at all unless you're in a stable relationship and don't mind too much if you fall pregnant.
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thanks, but its too late for the morning after pill now...i'll just have to deal with whatever hand fate deals me
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kittencutie119 said:
First of all chill out girl. If you don't keep track of your periods and i dont either just try and remember the last time you had it and go from there. From the stuff you told us I would say you have a slim chance you are preg so try not to worry. however if you start experiencing signs just come clean and tell someone and get checked out but most importantly do not panic. hope i helped.
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thanks, im trying to stay calm it just hard
ShakedaClemm posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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sorry, but what kind of sign would i be looking for?
ShakedaClemm posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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um signs would be increasingaches in the lower digestion or stomach area, swollen ankles, vomiting an unusual amount and anything else out of the ordinary involving your lower systems.
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VengeanceWolf said:
out of concern for I have to say that not using protection was pretty irresponsible, but take heart, you should be fine I really doubt you are pregnant however to avoid this problem in the future be madami cautious

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thanks, and i know it was so stupid, never again (with out protection)
ShakedaClemm posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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i had a friend once who did what you did, she died in childbirth and so did the kid she was 15 so if i can help others i will
VengeanceWolf posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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urs is a good answer
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thanks I guess
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Vixie79 said:
If you are pregnant, I suggest taking the morning after pill if it is not too late. It is only effective the first 5 days, but try to use it as soon as possible. The costs vary from 10 to 75 dollars. You can get "Plan B" at a drugstore over the counter.

Now, if you find that you are not. Please go to the doctor and find out about good contraceptives to use to prevent pregnancy, if you choose to continue to be sexually active that is. Also, if you decide to stay sexually active I suggest on paying attention to your cycle. Ovulation begins 12 to 16 days after the last araw of you last period and although every girls period is different; you can still follow that schedule. Even though contraceptives are good to use they are not all 100%. So keeping tabs on all of it is a plus.

Here is the Mayo clinic website that gives you information on signs of pregnancy.

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thank you so much that was very helpful
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Deans_Girl said:
sorry if you guys get confused i have 2 accounts, so some of my comments are from this account. but its the same person that asked the question


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