Ok weird tanong but I want a serious answer please?

It is a pretty natural fear.
It isn't a terrible amount of blood but not a pin prick either. It depends on your hymen, Did you know there are about 7 different types? I didn't until just this year! The madami enclosed and thicker the tissue the madami you would bleed and probably the madami you would hurt. I also know this from experience. It wasn't so bad when you are concentrating on other things, you can breathe through the pain and it will subside after a bit. You are sore but wears off after a while. If you are occupied it helps if you are trying to focus on pleasure. Pain will pass.

It hurt.... but then you quickly heal.
The body is remarkable really.

I was scared to death my first time & much too young.
I was with someone my own age, (my bf at the time), and we were both virgins. I thought sex was great actually... but I seriously advise being better able to deal with and being older than me. I also flooded shortly after my promiscuity began at my boyfriends after sex. His mother was a nurse but I was -again- scared to death. I am not sure if I realized that it was different than blood from veins... butstill FREAKED me out and I had never seen that much blood.

I am sorry if anyone is queasy or grossed out. I won't get graphic, I know it's gross, but I did stain my polished wood kama frame at the time of my first.

That segundo deal, being so young, I was quiet, serious, embarrassed, stuck at my bf's house and he kinda made fun of me~ not to mean, but we were young and he was trying to ease my fear and tention. Maturity helps in knowing what to do in situations "maybe" ???

I have gotten the impression from some other posts here and there that you may be experimental or bi and I think that when the time comes - male or female, you'll have resources before, during, or after that will help you be & feel madami at ease (if you pick the right person!)

It's okay to be scared.... even a lil phobic at this point, it's natural... just remember that sex and pag-ibig are natural things too. I bet it all works out, first or susunod ;) Just let things happen naturally (& remember to use protection male or a female!!)

It depends on the girl, the boy, the age, the timing...there is so much to take into account. For instance I was 16, it hurt a little bit but there was not a drop of blood. My boyfriend knew I nervous of the pain and made sure I was 'excited' and as ready as possible. We took it slow and for the first time there really wasnt a whole lot going on.

So my opinion, don't be nervous. Be with someone you trust to respect your body physically, so the will take there time and be gentle. And also someone you trust emotionally, if you trust them not to hurt you emotionally (break your heart) your body will be madami willing to accept. Many girls suffer their first time because they are so nervous and they tense up too much.

So be with someone who cares about you (and you care about them), relax, and take your time. Make sure you can take your time, the first time should not be rushed, it should be eased into. If the guy goes to fast, thats when it will hurt more. A girl needs time to adjust to the new feeling and quite blatantly the large thing inside.

Another tip, is to use lube. Woman will lubricate themselves naturally, however, with first time nerves or lack of forplay or arousal, lube makes it much easier.

Hope that all helped, feel free to message me if you want to know more

Don't have sex till you are ready, don't let anyone pressure into doing it and don't just do it because all your mga kaibigan are. I think it differs for everyone; I read the other answer and saw that she had bleed a lot? where as my first time was this year; I'm 17 and I had sex with my (virgin) boyfriend. I didn't bleed a lot at all. It was the tiniest amount of blood. It only hurt because I wasn't 'wet' enough, so it felt like a dry rubbing sensation (not a good sensation) but that changed quickly when I got madami wet; it felt so pleasurable, even though I was so scared and didn't know what I was doing it felt right because it was with the one person in the world I loved most. It also depends on if you use tampons when you are on your period because that can wear down the vaginal tissue which cause the bleeding and pain. But in the end its different for every girls, because different people are ready at different times. I just depends on what you feel and if you think its the right time for you :)