well, pag-ibig is a feeling we can't help having. its like this big bright hole that you suddenly find urself falling into.the light is blinding your eyes and you can't see anything. you feel like everything has changed. and then your eyes adapt and so do you. you open your eyes and suddenly this whole new place pops out. everythings the same but different. suddenly the parking lot in front ur school looks like heaven. the stpid lamp post you used to kick so often looks like an angel, the gods messenger. love, the slight touch of it changes everything.. you find urself smiling alone, mangarap ng gising a lot even fantasizing.. it makes you a better person.. although i'm not saying that pag-ibig is a necessary boon for us. all i can say is you need to drop into the hole to find the light...