This was written sa pamamagitan ng a long-lost friend of mine who was dreadfully heartbroken sa pamamagitan ng a guy she was certain was her Prince Charming. It gets to me every time I read it, so now I'm turning it over to you. I'm curious...is what this artikulo is saying the truth? Will true pag-ibig forever be a myth? Comment and let me know.
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Love, the definition is a tender affection for someone or something..but does the true pag-ibig thingy ACTUALLY exist? Sure, the family and mga kaibigan claim to love, but how would anyone know it is a TRUE love? We are all still individual people with individual thoughts and beliefs. The world, in my view, is just a cruel place that is meant to take away your joy and love. Look at life itself, all will come to an end, won’t it? Trying to find love, what’s the point? Won’t you lose it someday? Would it really be worth the puso breaking search? We all need someone susunod to our sides to carry us through and crawl along with us when we are broken inside, but it’s so hard to find someone who will forever be with you nowadays. Our hearts long from the araw we gain sense perception to find acceptation and love, but the journey is heart-wrenching. The madami pain we suffer, the madami we need that pag-ibig we are looking for. The days pass and the burdens grow till our backs ache from carrying them. Why do we turn to addictions? To get the anger, heartbreak, and endless pain out, but it never works. We stumble along the road to find pag-ibig because we cannot see through our tears. Is it worth it? I have ibingiay my puso away too many times, and when I try to stop myself, I end up repeating that same action. I wish I had someone dedicated to crawl with me when it gets hard, to carry me when I just can’t ilipat one madami step, give me love, and always care for me. In return, of course, I’d be madami than willing to do this for that person, but where is he? What if I just can’t ilipat another step to meet him? Will he find me or will I find him along love’s journey in need of help and pag-ibig from his suffering? Will I make it? Will he make it? It’s sinabi that pag-ibig makes the world go ‘round, but then why is it so hard to find real pag-ibig in this world? I can’t even see past the tears and pain others have left me in. Not to mention how much they have forced me to strengthen my requisites in order for someone to gain my trust. I guess they just weren’t high enough though, because I still run into heartbreak sometimes. So, does this mean heartbreak is part of love? How can someone survive madami than one case of heartbreak? It seems so wrong to place these two together, but, if you think about it, they do end up fitting perfectly with each other. I see now that married couples who actually die being in the same marriage, no matter the struggles in their relationship, are among the most blessed people in the world because they found each other. They actually found each other and married! Marriage is a gift, and pag-ibig is madami than a gift, it is a precious and necessary gem of life, but it brings its many trials. In my view, its trials are as fire. ginto is purified through fire, so I guess before we meet our other halves we must be “purified” through love’s fire. The apoy is the heartbreak and suffering, but we must always keep in mind the prize at the end, joy and happiness. When finally together, you must forget all occasional arguments and look back on the heartache you received while trying to find that special person. It is not impossible to make this journey at all, because it has been done so many times before, just not handled properly in some cases. Keeping your head and hopes up during this journey is the real suffering, but you just need to remember “Love is bendable but never breakable.” Yet, will I ever make it through this suffering to find my “true love”, or will this remain a mystery to me…?