all of them would work!!!!

this is just the one i use!!!

Well, to be with someone else doesn't work for me 'cause I'm just not interested in being in a relationship when my heart is broken. Plus, I think it would make me only worse because I would compare every step of my new boyfriend with Him.

Having fun wouldn't/didn't work either 'cause I don't feel like having fan and partying.

To cry, cry and cry - well, I sure used that one, but for two days and then I got myself back together. I can tell you it did help, but it would make me worse if it lasted any longer.

To stay in bed and dream? No way! It's like I was trying to bury myself.

I don't think friends can help me either. At least in a first few days. I just have to be alone for a while. But it's always good to know you have someone beside you, no matter what.

And finally - to cut him out! I think that's the only possible way to save pieces that have left. I have done that and it's really working. But you have to be persistent. I deleted EVERY picture of us, him AND his friends. Deleted every song that reminded me of him in any way. I deleted every SMS he has sent me, and even his number. MSN address and everything else that I can't even remember now.
I can sure you, if you do it this way - it will work! And as for the pictures - you won't be sorry later even though you might think now as you will.

I know my friend is always here to be with me, no matter what will happen. Her hug is enough :)

This can work, because a new love is all you need and I think it's better. if a new person treats you right and if it's better than your old love, it will work and you'll forget about the past.

Cry and cry it's also a good thing. When you cry, you let it out and it feels so good after it. But you dont get over it.

Friends... Maybe. But imagine that your friends can't be with you or worse: Imagine that you have no friends. They can't help you.
But if you have friends and if they're close, their hug is absolutely necessary. But that also wont make you forget about him/her.

Delete everything that reminds you of him/her can work, but you are not 100% sure. You already have his memories on your mind. erase photos, number, email, letters, messages it's not enough. The most important memories are inside of us. But it can work, who knows?

Having fun works to make you happier and self-confident. But he/she will always be inside of you, even if you party, if you drink, if you sing or dance until you explode. It wont make you forget about your love, but it will make you happier, thats for sure.

Stay in bed and dream??? Thats nuts, only if you are a masoquist! That is not only crazy, that's sad.

So... yeah. The only way is being with someone else. Find a new someone that loves you and reminds you of him/her. that happened to me, I only dont know if he also loves me. :(

Staying in bed and dreaming is the worst one, that would not work at all if you want to forget them!!

Honestly, staying busy, getting out and doing stuff does wonders.

its easier for me plus sometimes its pretty damn good

A new person would give you the attention and companionship that you thought would only be possible with your last gf/bf. By spending time with one or more other people you realize that the last person wasn't so special. Its called one-ittis. When you become obsessed with one person and will most likely drive them away by being to clingy. It can also work after a break-up.

Go to your friends and cut them out of your life, at least fo a while. I think rebounds are just a quick fix, they dont necessarily help you get over someone, they can just mask your feelings and make you more confused, maybe.

cry and cut

i've tried tht sooo many times, and it feels better :')