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Misserable...

Ok, surprise here, this has nothing to do with a book or an assignment. You don't have ta keep pagbaba this.
I just need help to know if anyone else is or has been in my place. I had ibingiay a guy something I could never take back. Along with my heart. But after 8 and a half months of dating and a misscarriage misshap.. oops... we finally decide to split. or, he does at least. I hate the idea.But I am trying to save myself from severe self harm and pain. Here's my question...
How do you tell your mind to stop loving someone when your puso still does?
 Firewriter posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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Ryuuto013 said:
Your mind and your puso can completely disagree with each other. Even if your mind says "stop", your puso can still say "go".
Trying to force your puso to stop loving someone is pointless and it might even make it hurt more.

The puso itself is impossible to control and is unpredictable. Maybe your puso will fall high over heels in pag-ibig with another guy already susunod month. You never know.

Your mind and puso will have to work together to ilipat on. If you think about him (too much), you will only remind your puso that you're heartbroken. Something you should do is try to keep your mind on something else, whether it's a pet, friends, hobbies etc. While your mind is busy thinking about other things, your puso can recover from the heartbreak peacefully.

Support from mga kaibigan and family is always good. Having your loved ones supporting you through a heartbreak can help you focus and help your puso recover faster. You know, to "fill the hole" in your heart.

One important thing you should think about is not trying to rush things. The madami you pag-ibig someone, the harder it is to let go. You need to take one step at the time. If you think you can't do it alone, you should turn to a loved one for help.
(( Quote: "You'll ilipat on and be a champion in your susunod endeavor as you did in your past ... Life is not a success-only journey. You are going to get beat up along the way." - Dr Philip "Phil" McGraw, one of the world's best psychologists )).

I hope my answer helped a bit or at least made some sense and I wish you good luck.
If you need someone to talk with and your mga kaibigan or family members are busy, we're all ears.
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Thank you sooo much!!!
Firewriter posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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Really good answer
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