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TheLefteris24 said:
These are my Scores:
9 for Words of Affirmation
Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your pag-ibig language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I pag-ibig you,” are important— hearing the reasons behind that pag-ibig sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten. You thrive on hearing kind and encouraging words that build you up.
6 both for Quality Time and Receiving Gifts
a) In Quality Time, nothing says “I pag-ibig you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and kutsilyo down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful. Whether itʼs spending uninterrupted time talking with someone else or doing activities together, you deepen your connection with others through sharing time.
b) Don’t mistake this pag-ibig language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures. Gifts are heartfelt symbols to you of someone else's pag-ibig and affection for you.
5 for Acts of Service / Kindness
Can helping with homework really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most wants to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making madami work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter. When others serve you out of pag-ibig (and not obligation), you feel truly valued and loved.
4 for Physical Touch
A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, and thoughtful touches on the arm—they can all be ways to ipakita excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive. Appropriate and timely touches communicate warmth, safety, and pag-ibig to you.
That's it, pretty much.
What I want to say is that it was an expected result but at the same time, I got myself surprised concerning the order of some since there are those that I personally feel myself placing on a higher value than the way these Scores indicate...
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