I'm having trouble with my gender orientation (ill explain in the deets)

Well, being Bi doesn't mean you don't know what gender you are. It means your pysically nd emotionally attracted with both Females and Males. If you are questioning your identity as a person with gender though, ask yourself do you feel madami like you belong to be seen as a male or female? do you enjoy the feeling of being feminine (womanly) inside and want to portray those feelings outwardly?