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What do you think about this? Do you consider this cheating?

So I have a friend who's 40 years old. I met him at work and he's a really cool guy.

So he asks me to give him a massage. I gladly accept his request. I'm not talking about a 'You sit in front of me and I'll massage your shoulders massage' I'm talking about a 'Take your sando off and lay down then I'll get the baby oil and massage you massage'.
So today he waited for me to get off work so we could go to his place. He tells me all the time, Don't be scared all I want is a massage. I don't want sexo, from you, only massage. Still I felt awkward. lmao. [[He's mexican]]

We rotated giving massages and I found out he finds me extremely attractive so when he was giving me a massage he acted very sexual on me. and had to force himself to calm down at least four times. He respects me and my feelings and is a really good friend. Best friend mind you. lmao.

Nothing happened with him but he did decide to get naked at one point to ipakita me his body which for a 40 yr old isn't that bad. lmao.

Was it bad that I didn't mind everything that happened Even though I have a boyfriend?
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adultswimperson said:
He could have done something sexual towards you and it would have been a good thing to push him off if he did.
People like that can be a attracted to other woman for some unknown reasons, a sex addict perhaps.
And yes it is very akward to like someone else if you already have a girlfriend/boyfriend.
If you feel very uncomfortable about it then focus on you're lover, not him.
That guy probably tried making a ilipat but he knew he'd get in trouble for harassment.
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The odd thing was I was ok with it but I seriously don't have any feelings like that towards him. He's just a good friend. Yes it was uncomfortable at first but after a while it was like w/e I know i can trust him, he's always honest with me.
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@LuvWeezy7, Well ok, but of he does something sneaky than back away from him and go get help, sometimes people aren't as always who they say.
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Thank you! I know ppl aren't always who they say they are but after experiencing all that and how he proves to have self controll and respect also it's the first time any guy has ever listened to me when I sinabi no. I've grown trust with him but very little. Thank you again! <3
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@LuvWeezy7, You're welcome.;)
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Hidden said:
HOLY SHIT. I'm going back to hiding in the darkness.
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-__- Thanks.........
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victoria7011 said:
I consider it kind of cheating.You should tell you BF!
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I would never tell him unless he asked.
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Ok.
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DTFBbzXD said:
I reckon tell your boyfriend. If it'sok with him it fine and if not and you know that it's kind of unfaithful but i don't think cheating. He might be kinda angry but 'lmao' Your fault..
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