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Am I too young to get married?

I'm getting married in December, and I turned 18 on May 27th. My boyfriend is 18, too. One of his best mga kaibigan and 2 of my bffs sinabi that we were too young. Would you agree?
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EmzLovesCheryl said:
18 is an acceptable and legal age to get married, yes.

But your mga kaibigan are just worried that you're making a wrong move.
In some countries women get married at very young ages, but here where I am in England, most people leave it till later on.
Sometimes it's not a wise decision to get married so early. You and your partner may not know eachother as well as you think you do, depending on how long you've been together. But as far as I'm concerned, as long as you've both thought this through properly, you've taken into account your parents/guardians' opinions, and are certain that it's what you want, then I'm sure there's no problem. But you must feel ready. You don't want to grow up too quickly and regret it.

But if you're both mature about this and certain, then I'm happy for you. :)


sa pamamagitan ng the way, how long have you known him?

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I always pag-ibig how you answer with the long, yet informative little speech :D I agree :)
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Hehe, I can't seem to help it. :) Thanks!
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@kakalover, it all depends really on how you feel. you're obvously uncertain, right? otherwise you wouldn't be asking this question. what's the rush? you have years to go of you being happily together without the stress of being married. And if it's not what you want, then don't be shy to call the wedding off, if he loves you he'll understand. i'm not going to tell you what you should do, because it's up to you to decide. Listen to the voice deep inside your heart. Does it think you're ready? 5 months is a short time. Go with what you want, not what you think you should do.
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Schnusch said:
I don't think 5 months being together are enough time. You should live together first to know if he's right for you and if you get along when you see each other everyday and have to manage a household together. Cause that's always a whole lot different than visiting each other. My fiancé and I lived in my mother's apartment sharing a small room for one taon and then moved into our own flat. We faced a lot of difficulties that others only face after years of marriage and we stayed a couple. So we knew it's no mistake to marry cause even those rough times couldn't separate us. You never know if the marriage lasts but if you have faith in it and there's no doubts for you then you should marry. But you're asking this tanong so you obviously have doubts. And is that a good start for a marriage? I don't think so.

You shouldn't buy a dress before you know it's the perfect size. It's no guarantee that it will fit you for a lifetime. But at least while it fits it makes you happy and not feel like you made a mistake buying it =)
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agreed.
EmzLovesCheryl posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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My parents got married after 3 months and this taon they will have 19 years of marriage.
Drisina posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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I didn't say there was no exceptions ;) I just wouldn't do it.
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Ale1152 said:
It may not be wise to get married at a young, but I think 18 would be acceptable.
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Ok. Thanks!
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Your Welcome ^^
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Insane4ever said:
Those marriegess rarely last.....so good luck
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Thanks.
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bluesweets said:
I think it is, you haven't lived your life yet, but whatever, our opinions don't really matter.
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You really thinks so?
kakalover posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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Yeah and as sinabi above, those marriages rarely last. I think it also depends on how long you have been going out.
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rapunzeleah123 said:
That is quite young... but I'm going to pray for your marriage to keep holding on. It's probably been stated before, but young marriages don't really last. (Excepting Edward and Bella's XD)
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Thanks!
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No prob :)
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Tamar20 said:
Well my sister got married in the age of 18 and then she got divorced in two months!
Hmm I'm not trying to let you down or anything but marriage is a huge responsibility. But if you're in pag-ibig and feel like it's the right thing go for it.
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Ok.
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nciszivarox said:
I think that if you guys are sure you pag-ibig each other and want to be together for the rest of your life pag-ibig has no age limit.So I say its yours and your fiancee's opinion that matters madami than theirs. Good luck I hope you have a great marriage
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KK.
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zanesaaomgfan said:
No...

My ex-friend's sister got married at 17 since the wedding was on her birthday....

Or was that her mom...?

Anyway, I asked my mom a few days nakaraan why she thinks Zanessa is too young to think about marriage and she sinabi because there might be other people out there that they would fall for.

Your and his mga kaibigan are probably thinking that... How long have you been dating? (Please don't say a week!)
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Wow, that's pretty good. I'd say go for it!
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Thanks!!
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^ But she kinda grew up with him, you know?
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Chaann94 said:
Sure it's legal.
But you better wait 'till you both are all grown up. See the brain is done growing when ur about 24/25. THEN you're a grown-up! If you get married after that you're less likely to grow apart.
So it's madami for your own sake. But of course I don't know you and your relationship so...
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Drisina said:
There is no too young/old age to get married.
You do it when you feel ready and you found the person you want to spent the rest of your life with , but in the same time to be sure she/he wants the same thing.
"Use your head and follow your heart."
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StarGirl1721 said:
well your young and your not
if you think you can handle the responsibilities then your OK to go with it but
if you think you can't well then its up to...but remember its always your disunion to make ;)
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Niceness said:
Do what your puso and mind is telling you.
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shadowcharmer said:
pretty much -_-
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 pretty much -_-
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