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Why do you think this is?

Alright, so you know when someone loses a loved one or has some other misfortune befall on them others will say "I will pray for you" or "they're in a better place"? Well I have seen some people actually get mad when people say these things. Now I get that those people don't believe in religion, of course, and that's fine, everyone should believe, and not believe, in whatever they want. What I don't get is why they get so angry over someone trying to comfort them in their own way. Why do you think that is?
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Canada24 said:
Because people are assholes
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Servamp posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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True and to the point.
EgoMouse posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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Thanks for saying so i didn't have to.
BlindBandit92 posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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Also this !!!!
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EgoMouse said:
Because people tend to get offended sa pamamagitan ng everything. They focus madami on the words than the motives, especially if it conflicts with their beliefs.
I've gotten through that weird religion hating phase (but I guess hate is a strong word here, just generally not liking it).
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Servamp said:
-I guess some people feel this way because if you accept sympathy, then you must acknowledge that you have a loss. So if you want to be in denial, sympathy is the last thing you want to accept.
- Sympathy can feel like pity and nobody wants to be pitied.
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^ This !!!!
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CokeTheUmbreon said:
Some people are assholes.
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Zeppie said:
Mainly because many people choose to be offended sa pamamagitan ng almost anything.

But in their defense, the only reason why I'd imagine they'd get mad at that response is because they're not in a stable place of mind, they Nawawala someone they loved and some people get angry and hostile while they're grieving, others are madami passive and quiet.

But if they do react that way, just leave it be and give them space. Grief can change people so wait for them to handle it in their time.
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