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Can you help me with my guy troubles?

I need advice. There are these two guys that i like a ton. But i am going out w/ one of them (lets call him Eric) but still have feelings for the other one.. lets call him Ron. So a few months nakaraan i told Ron that i just want to be friends, and im pretty sure he cried :(... But now i have feelings for Ron, but now he's ignoring me. How can I stay mga kaibigan w/ Ron and not let Eric get in the way of that? (CHEATING IS NOT AN OPTION)plz help! thanks :)
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LadyL68 said:
This sounds like a problem my friend is having. She won't take my advice, but maybe you will. You have to be direct with both of them. Do it soon, or else you will lose both of them. You have a few options.
1. Break up with Eric and tell Ron that your sorry you hurt him. Be mga kaibigan with him for a while, then ask him out when you think he is ready.
2.Stick with Eric if you truly like him.
3. Be just mga kaibigan with both of them.
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but i want to be madami than mga kaibigan for sure w/ eric, but i dont like ron ignoring me(and btw i chose the name ron from hp :) --but anyway, how do i get ron to lighten up a bit and be best mga kaibigan practicall?
catsrule465 posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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Thats a tough one, but I'd just say that you need to talk to Ron and appologise if you hurt him. Be nice to him and see if he really is what you want in a guy. You'll find the one thats better for you eventually. Nice name choice, btw :)
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thespikedturtle said:
Being a guy, I'd really want to know if a situation like this was going on.

If I was Ron, I'd feel mad at you only if I truly liked you, and I'd want to know if you felt the same way towards me.

If I was Eric, I'd be completely clueless on what was happening, and I'd like to know if you actually felt anything toward me.

I think it'd be easier if you saw this from every possible perspective, and I hope it works out!
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Thanks, that helped :) but Eric know i really like him... however i doubt Ron has a clue :(
catsrule465 posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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Just stay honest to both of them, things will work out eventually! :)
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