I used to think sex after marriage but than i realised hmm what happens if i dont wanna get married? what happens if i get married in my 30's? i would have missed out on alot of sexxx....
BUT IM NOT SAYING I DO RANDOMS ROFL!!!
Just if i had a boyfreind who i lovedddd i'd probly do before :P

I don't think either way is wrong or right. I know people who have had sex before they're married and people who have waited. Each way worked for them. I don't think there's anything wrong with having sex before you're married but I don't think there's anything wrong with waiting either :)

LOl oh i knoww that :P I dont care what people choose but likee i meant indivuals and what they have grown up with if they kept what they grew up with or if they changed their mind... ya know?

But i get what you're saying.

after, morals r important

^morals may be important, but this doesnt mean that you have to wait until you are -what?- 27 to have sex... i mean sex life is important too...im not saying to go have sex with any random guy, but when you love the one you are with, even if you are only 17 e.g., then id say go for it...love is physical as well.

Morals are important, obviously, but that doesn't mean sex before marriage is immoral.

Personally, I think if you're in a commited relationship (preferably in love but whatever it's up to the indivudual XD) then there's nothing wrong with having sex with someone.

I'm with katiecain

there's more to life than sex... like love. find love before sex. solves a lot of problems.
if you can't hold out to have sex simply because it's sex and you want to lose your virginity then... it's actually kind of sad. why is there this mentality that everybody needs to have sex as soon as possible? nothing bad comes from waiting to have sex; lots of things come from jumping the gun though.

if you love a person, which is the main piece of the argument above, then you can wait till your married to make that call. what many people call love is only actually infatuation and can only be distinguished against in the presence of something long term and meaningful, such as marriage.