Here are some signs that someone is lying to you.
1. Don’t maintain eye contact
Less than half conversation
-It’s true that the eyes are the windows of the soul. You have to observe. Look at his eyes. If he can’t look at your eyes during the conversation, that could be an indicator that he is lying.
2. A lot of Uhmm’s and Ahh’s.
-He doesn’t know what to say next. He always pauses for a few segundos before he ang sumagot to you. That’s because he has to think harder before he talk. He has to be careful for the susunod word that he will say or else…Gotcha!!!
3. A lot of voice changing during the conversation.
-He will do that to confuse you. At one point during the conversation, his voice sound normal, then mad, then it will sound sweet, pleading, high-pitched etc.
4. Starts contradicting himself.
-He is inconsistent with his answers. He will make you look like it’s your entire fault. He’ll turn the story the other way around. He might use reverse Psychology so better be careful baby.
5. Sarcasm
-He gets mad easily.
6. Somebody that changes the topic easily.
-Topics! He keeps changing the topic because he can’t keep up with his lies any longer. What you have to do is ask him the same tanong again and again, but in different ways. I’m sure you don’t want him to know that you are trying to catch him right?
7. Unusual body language.
-He looks nervous all the time. He is always uncomfortable. Watch his body language. He keeps doing the things that he doesn’t usually do at a normal conversation with you. He looks worried while talking with you, especially if you bring up the topic he is lying about. He feels the guilt.
8. Extremely defensive.
-Yep! Extremely defensive. I repeat..EXTREMELY DEFENSIVE! You say one word, and he will be like “What?! Where did you get that information? OMG, you don’t believe in me, you never did! You don’t pag-ibig me, blah..blah..blah..” He will spend minutos or hours explaining something that you didn’t even know what the heck he is talking about already. He will make you look like you are the one who is lying. He will blame you for the things that he did. You say one word and he would act like it’s the end of the world.
I hope those things that I wrote above made any sense. If it didn’t, even just a little bit….Its not my problem anymore. Just deal with it Man! >:D..Peace ^^
